My friend, have you ever heard of pegging? Well, this kinky sex act isn’t something that everyone indulges in, but if you’re into it, you might be wondering if you can use it for lesbian sex? The answer is a resounding yes!
I first heard about pegging last summer, while I was reconnecting with an old flame. She had told me of her wild experiences, including pegging — and I was instantly intrigued. I wanted to know more, and I wanted badly to try it with her.
To be honest, I wasn’t sure how it would work. Pegging is usually depicted in mainstream media as an activity for heterosexual couples, so I was a bit intimidated. However, I soon learned that the act can be incredibly pleasurable for all kinds of people regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
Turns out, pegging can be a great way to explore and experiment with different types of pleasure. Many women find that the sensation of being pleasured anally is unexpected and enjoyable. Some prefer softer, smaller dildos while others appreciate something a bit bigger and more firm. Your partner may love it if you tie a handkerchief or scarf around your dildo for extra texture and stimulation.
Speaking of straps, you’ll also need a harness for pegging that clings securely to your body. This can take a bit of getting used to, but most women find that the novelty and excitement of something new outweighs any discomfort they may experience when first putting on the harness and using a dildo.
Knowing that pegging is an incredible and sensual experience for all combinations of partners was surprisingly comforting to me. I felt more comfortable and confident inquiring into pegging with my flame. To our surprise (and delight!), neither of us were able to keep our hands off each other after that experience.
But pegging isn’t just about physical pleasure. For some, it’s about emotional and psychological pleasure as well. This can involve experimenting with power, control, and vulnerability. My flame and I both found that this allowed us to really connect with each other and create a deeper bond than ever before.
Interestingly, some women enjoy the unique gender roles that pegging can create. It’s the perfect way to experience traditional penetration in a completely different way. It’s not about power or domination, it’s about two people exploring each other and expressing their love and admiration in a completely new and exciting way.
The best part about pegging is that you can make it whatever you want it to be. You can enjoy a slower and more sensual experience with lingerie and music, or you can go all out with hardcore toys and Domme/sub play. It all depends on what elicits the most pleasure for both you and your partner.
That being said, pegging as a sexual activity is not for everyone, so it’s important to discuss all of the risks, boundaries, and safety measures with your partner beforehand. Pegging should always be consensual and pleasurable for both participants. Communication is key.
Pegging is also more than just penetrative sex. Yes, the majority of pegging sessions involve penetration, but it’s much more than that. You can add a variety of accessories to enhance the experience, such as vibrators, feathers, restraints, and blindfolds.
The beauty of pegging is that it doesn’t have to be just about penetration. You can use it to really explore and discover what gets you and your partner both hot and bothered, and allowing yourself to experiment with new roles and pleasure dynamics.
Ultimately, pegging can be a very intimate and fulfilling experience for lesbian couples. It can bring you closer together emotionally, mentally, and physically, and can truly open up a world of sexual exploration and discovery. So if you think it’s something you and your partner might want to try, go for it!