It took me a while to realise that I like masturbating better than sex. Frankly, it wasn’t something I expected. But as I explored different types of sexual experience, I realised it offers something special. I’m sure there are plenty of guys who think differently than me, but that’s only natural.
At first, masturbation felt awkward and daunting, almost like I was engaging in a forbidden activity. But over time, I found out that it was much more powerful and liberating than any sexual encounter I had with anyone else. The feeling of having control over my own pleasure, without involving anyone else, felt amazing. And when I combine it with my own fantasies, it creates a truly unique experience.
I think one of the biggest advantages of masturbation over sex is that I can take my time. Unlike partners, I don’t have to worry about someone else’s needs and feelings. I can focus on my own pleasure and make sure I get the most out of it. Plus, I can adjust and stop whenever I feel like it.
The sensations felt during masturbation are deeper and more intense, because I’m at the helm of my own pleasure. Even though finding the right partner can be exhilarating, it’s hard to top the pleasure I feel when I focus entirely on myself. I can explore different techniques, fantasies, and slow my rate of speed to almost a crawl.
Lastly, I love the freedom and privacy that comes with solo pleasure sessions. I’m not shy about sex, but sometimes I feel like talking about it or having sex in front of someone else just doesn’t do it for me. Knowing that I can take myself to new heights of pleasure without having to share it with anyone is one of its greatest assets.
What’s even better, I can pick and choose who and when to share my experiences. I can be as loud or as quiet as I need to and I won’t get judged. This allows me to be free and open in ways that I rarely feel with anyone else.
But it’s not just about pleasure and freedom. It’s also about trust. For me, masturbation is a way to build trust with myself. I have to trust in my own sexuality to be able to take myself to places where I’ve never been before. With sex, I don’t always have this layer of trust. I have to be confident in my decisions and boundaries and trust that I will be taken care of. But with masturbation, I can just relax and enjoy the ride.
Masturbation is also a way for me to explore and learn more about myself and my body. I can experiment with new things and find out what works and what doesn’t. Plus, it allows me to continue exploring my own fantasy world, away from prying eyes.
And like with everything, practice and trial-and-error are key to mastering the art of masturbation. Learning about lubricants, different sex toys and techniques, has made my solo sex life incredibly fun and varied. And with some imagination and creativity, the possibilties are literally endless.
Masturbation has become a safe haven for me. I’m not sure I would have ever discovered it, if not for the multitude of sexual experiences I have found myself in. Now, it’s like a ritual – one that brings me back to my own intuition and personal power every time. I love knowing that I’m in charge of my own pleasure and it will always be a place I can go to, sex dolls no matter what.