I had come across this trend recently on the internet called ‘Pretends to be a Sex Doll Porn’. This concept totally floored me. I couldn’t even wrap my head around it; I mean the whole idea of someone simulating sex with an inanimate object seemed so off-putting and odd. And yet, here it was, right in front of me.
To my surprise, the videos were, ahem, “tastefully” and almost artistically made. Okay, now I’m not going to lie to you or anything, but I admit to watching some of it. It was just too alluring. I just couldn’t turn away!
To make matters worse, I was immediately struck by the realism of the videos. I must confess – it felt as if I was sitting there, in the room, watching somebody dancing with a real life sex doll, or at least something even close to it. The level of craftsmanship was amazing, no doubt — the product was almost too lifelike for me to believe.
This made me reflect upon the human desire for company, and lust for sensations. It seems that when a desire is too strong, humans even resort to making lifelike objects to replicate the sensation. I suppose this is why some people prefer dolls over real life partners. It makes a bit of sense in a way, if you think about it.
The next thought I had was a forlorn one – it made me feel so cruel and depressing to think that some people are so lonely, and they need to resort to such ‘unnatural’ means of fulfilment. But then again, it is also true that for some, sex dolls can be beneficial in that they reduce the need to go out and meet people for sex. So there’s another way of looking at it.
Another thing that surprised me was the fact that this kind of artwork was actually gaining popularity. When I first heard about it, I thought it might be a fringe thing — something not widely accepted by mainstream society. But after a bit of research, I was surprised to learn that, actually, a fair number of people found pleasure and satisfaction by ‘pretending’ to be with a sex doll.
I had to ask myself: what is it about these dolls that attract people? I mean of course, they do resemble a real-life partner, but it still felt creepy to me. So what is it that lures them in? Do people just like the idea of having something life-like to fulfill their needs? Or do they enjoy the raw, animalistic sensation of completely possessing somebody?
It was unfathomable for me why people would choose sex dolls over partners. But then, it is all about personal experiences and likes. What might be strange to me could be someone else’s modus operandi. After all, different strokes for different folks!
To get a better understanding of the subject, I spoke to various people who in one way or another, have been associated with sex dolls. And while their experiences were varying – one of the common denominators was that they found primates on sex dolls to be fulfilling. That’s when I realised that it is fundamentally about seeking comfort and fulfilment in the moment.
Additionally, Penis Rings I also learned that apart from the sensual pleasure, these people found solace in their pretend partners. Sex dolls in this context, i.e fulfilling needs with a sentient being, could be crazy-helpful. Talking to them, feeling their warmth, and even actually having conversations with them helped a lot of people.
Apart from these, people also bought sex dolls because they are seen as “safe” in some aspects. As it turns out, most people associate these companions with no-strings attached types of pleasure, unlike the real thing. A few people also found convenience and ease of maintenance in owning such dolls.
All of these considerations made it clear to me that each and every person has their own reasons to purchase and use sex dolls. I believe that it’s all about the individual needs and preferences of a person, and there might not be one-size-fits-all answer to this.
Having said all that, I do think that these sex dolls have somehow managed to fulfil the needs of those who have difficulty in finding genuine pleasure. I find that admirable, and I would never judge someone for his/her choices and preferences. After all, when it comes to pleasure, as long as it’s not hurting another person, it’s none of my business, now, is it?