should i buy a sex toy for men
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about whether I should buy a sex toy for men. I’m a single guy and I’m not sure that this is a good idea. In a way I’m scared about what my friends will think and if they’ll judge me, so I’m just not sure if I should do it.
I mean, it would be nice to be able to access all those different toys that can spice up my sex life. Plus, I wouldn’t have to worry about a partner pressuring me for something I’m not necessarily comfortable with. I guess part of my hesitance comes from the fact that I’m not sure I’m ready to take the plunge and purchase something like this.
On the one hand, purchasing a sex toy for men could be a way to add to my bedroom fun, as long as I’m discreet and careful about it. Plus, it could be a great way to keep me from getting bored while I’m alone. I could experiment with different sensations and explore my own body in a way that I never imagined.
On the other hand, I have to consider whether this kind of toy is something I’m actually ready for or want. Like, do I just buy the toy and never use it or do I actually take the plunge and use it? That’s the main question I’m struggling with. It’s a lot to consider and sometimes I feel like I’m not sure what to do.
Meanwhile, I keep hearing about male sex toys that could provide me with a different kind of pleasure. It might be fun to explore the sensations and maybe even surprise myself with something new. But then again, I don’t want to do something I’m really not comfortable with. For now I’m just going to keep thinking about it and deciding whether it’s something I should do.
I can also think of plenty of other ways I might be able to spice up my sex life without actually purchasing the toy. I could for example buy some sexy lingerie, watch some X-rated movies or even invest in some massage oils. That might be enough to keep me entertained and still experiment with different kinds of pleasure.
Plus, I could always just talk to my partner and see if there’s something else we can do together that would be more fun for both of us. Maybe that could be the start of something special and it would help us grow closer through shared experiences.
And another thing I’m keeping in mind is that I don’t want to become too dependent on the sex toy and dildos forget to appreciate the real thing. It can be really easy to become addicted to new pleasures, and that’s just too dangerous for me right now.
The bottom line is that I’m still undecided. I’m not sure whether now is the right time for me to purchase a male sex toy or not. Maybe I should try out something else first and then see how I feel about it. That could help me make a more informed decision.